12 Little Things You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship

12 Rules for a perfect relationship

                                12 Little Things You Can Do To Improve Relationship

Is there that thing called a perfect relationship? I doubt so because firstly, there is no perfection in a human being and secondly, the idea of a perfect relationship differs from person to person. 

If you ask me, if I’m having a perfect relationship with my spouse, then my answer would not be spontaneous “yes”. But I would say that my relationship with my spouse is not perfect, but I’m very happy in it.  He loves me perfectly in the exact way I want him to love me, I couldn’t ask for more. I’m sure this is what most of the happy couples have to say about their relationship.

The bliss that we get from having a happy relationship with our partners is immense.  When the relationship with our partners, do not work out, the whole web of fabrics in our lives are affected.  

To be precise, when our love life is in a mess, our spiritual, emotional, physical, social lives suck.  So maintaining a happy relationship with our partners is very importance in our lives.

Every relationship has its own perk.  All People are different, lovers differ therefore the rules of relationship differ. You don’t have to write down a list of rules in a paper, but you have to know the subjective rules that best suited for you and your spouse in keeping up your love life.

 If you are happy in your relationship in spite of or with all odds, if you find happiness and love in each other, I think you have to consider that as a nearly perfect relationship.  

Here are some ground general rules which I think are must in building a good foundation for a successful relationship

12 Little Things You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship

Rules for a perfect relationship1: Know Your Partners: knowing your partners in the truest sense is the first step to having a happy relationship. Know his weaknesses and strength, his likes and dislikes, his interest and passion, only then you will know how to deal with him accordingly.

Never fake about who you truly are.  Show yourselves to each other just as you truly are and accept each other with the flaws. Identify what your spouse’s dislikes and avoid doing it.

2: Honesty: Honesty is the best policy even in a relationship. Be honest with your feeling, thought, and action your partners. To err is human, so it’s considerable to make a mistake. But what really matters is your honesty to let your spouse know that you have made a mistake and for ask for forgiveness if need be. Remember that dishonesty is the root that destroys countless relationships.

3: Share of Self-Compromise: A relationship is built by people of two different persons. Even if you say that you and your spouse have a similar personality and have many things in common, you are you still different. A fair deal of compromising your interest for the happiness of your partner is what both the parties involved in a relationship must do.  Always trying to work thing in your own ways can kill your relationship. 

4: Loving Gestures: Every little gesture of courting and wooing each other counts in a relationship. Court and flirt with each other as though it is the initial period of your relationship. Bestowing kisses, saying ‘I love you’, buying flowers and gifts, etc made up the inevitable ingredients for a happy love life together.

5: Make Time For Each Other: Despite or in spite of your busy schedules, making time for each other plays a pivotal role in strengthening a relationship. Go out on a romantic date, have candle light dinner together, go out anywhere have fun together and nurture your relationship.

6: Physical And Emotional Need: Provide physical and emotional need to each other. Sex is one thing that always strengthens your love for each other. show your love to each other by feeling each other. When your spouse is undergoing personal problems, nothing will make him better than to hear you say “don’t worry, babe, I’m always here for you”, that’s when he/she needs you the most. Be there for each other at each other’s difficult time.  

7: No Comparison: Never compare your relationship with others. Comparing your relationship with others normally does not do any good to it. So just focus on investing everything you could do to make it work beautifully and let it flow in its own way and pace so that you can have a happy relationship nearing to a perfect relationship.

8: Give Space: personal space is required by every individual. Trust one another and give required space to each other. Excessive possessiveness suffocates a person and it can really lead to petty fights and quarrel that can even lead to an unhealthy relationship.

9: Do Not Flirt With Others: Flirting or having a flirtatious habit with others can provoke a sense of jealousy and insecurity for lovers. Even when you love your spouse very much and are not cheating on him/her, having a flirtatious habit can land you to a suspicious and unsecured relationship.

10: Have The Guts To Apologize: For every mistake you commit that you think displeases your partners, always have the guts to apologize. Don’t let your ego and cowardice blocks you to take up the initiative to say sorry and make reconciliation. Remember, “I’m really sorry, sweetheart” can work wonder in relationships and always beat down your petty quarrels with “I’m sorry”. Do not forget that being able to say sorry normally ends up in earning a kiss from your partner.

11: Reach Out To Your Spouse’s Parents: Maintaining a good rapport with your spouse’s parents and family is a plus point to have a happy relationship.Ups and downs, fights and kisses, war and peace, tears and laughter are all inclusively part of a relationship. Don’t forget that. Don’t expect too much from your spouse and relationship. Don’t be selfish, be selfless. Don’t search for a perfect relationship for it doesn’t exist, but search for a happy relationship.

12: Don’t’ Search For a Perfect Relationship: Ups and downs, fights and kisses, war and peace, tears and laughter are all inclusively part of a relationship. Don’t forget that. Don’t expect too much from your spouse and relationship. Don’t be selfish, be selfless. Don’t search for a perfect relationship for it doesn’t exist, but search for a happy relationship.

 

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